Questions around BDSM
How does someone tell their boyfriend they are into BDSM and want him to dominate them?
When you look at your partner, you believe they could be your Dominant. You NEED them to be your Dominant. I'm at a disadvantage when it comes to this common topic among many submissives, especially submissives who are married women. I discovered BDSM when I was single, post-divorce. Once I realized what I wanted and needed, I only pursued relationships with men who knew they were Dominants. I never had to have the hard conversations that occur when you want to take your vanilla relationship to a kinky, S&M-style level.
I know people struggle with this issue every day, so I turned to a few submissive friends of mine who all came to a point in their then-vanilla relationships when they felt ready to be a submissive to their spouse. Not every relationship had a perfect or easy transition, and D/s isn't an automatic fix — as one of these friends learned all too well.
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BDSM is an umbrella term that covers all communities, activities, relationships, and subcultures within the framework of BDSM. The letters BDSM refer to Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/submission, and Sadism removed link We see BDSM play out in small ways throughout various media, but what we rarely see is lesbian bondage. Even though lesbian is a top keyword search on any porn site on any day, and words related to BDSM are also high ranking when looked at collectively, lesbian bondage is a little more difficult to come by. That is especially true if you are looking for information about it on non-porn sites.
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